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Four-Fold Growth Methodology

Abstract

Approaching teaching from a holistic methodology enhances learning at all levels. Using theory as a methodological foundation ensures efficacy in the classroom and leads students to a well-rounded education, developing physically, mentally, spiritually, and socially. A key to effective teaching is understanding developmental stages and the importance of motivation, both extrinsic and intrinsic. Weaving technology into instruction not only engages students, but introduces them to the wealth of knowledge available in the cyber world. Classroom management is essential to academic productivity. A wise teacher manages the classroom well, while keeping students engaged and motivated. The Christian teacher integrates the Gospel into the classroom, whether public or private by living a Christian example before students, and intentionally engaging the whole student.

            Keywords: holistic, technology, motivation, productivity, management

 

 Four-Fold Growth Methodology

Luke 2:52 inspired the Four-Fold Growth Methodology (FFGM), “And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and man.” In this scripture, stature refers to physical growth, wisdom refers to mental growth, and “in favor with God and men” refers to both spiritual and social growth. Using a holistic approach to teaching ensures that the student will grow and development in these four areas. Greener (2016) posited that Luke 2:52 and 1 Samuel 2:26, “And the child Samuel grew on, and was in favour both with the LORD, and also with men,” define the importance of a whole child approach to learning, or FFGM.

Social and emotional learning (SEL), a part of the development process, must be done within a supportive environment (Burroughs, 2017). Blending ethical decisions, which is a part of spiritual and mental growth, with social and emotional learning, helps the child develop good decision-making skills. A foundational need of a child is a safe and secure environment. When the whole community (church, school, and home), comes together to create a safe learning environment for the whole child, the student is actively engaged, supported, and challenged (Murray, Hurley, & Ahed, 2015). Rasberry, Slade, Lohrmann, and Valois (2015) also discussed the whole school, whole community, whole child (WSCC) approach and concluded that it improves academic outcomes as well as the health of students.

Gold, Kauderer, Schwartz, & Solodow (2015), addressed the issue of examining the whole child when academic or social problems arise at school. So often these problems can be traced to particular circumstances in or out of school. When the FFGM model is used, each aspect of the child’s life is considered, not just one isolated portion.

Learning Theory and Its Importance

A good place to start with learning theory is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs which was developed in 1943 (Slavin, 2015). The five basic needs of a student, adapted from Maslow’s are: 1) healthy, 2) safe, 3) engaged, 4) supported, and 5) challenged (Slade & Griffith, 2013). By addressing the whole child, physical, mental, social, and spiritual, each of these needs can be met.

Various theorists have built ideology that guides educators. Piaget’s Stages of Cognitive Development give solid insight into what a child can learn and do at various stages. The sensorimotor stage takes place between birth and two years of age. At this stage, the major accomplishment of the child is “object permanence” and the child progresses from “reflexive behavior to goal-directed behavior” (Slavin, 2015, p. 32). The preoperational stage is from ages two to seven when the child develops the ability to use words and images to represent the world (Santrock, 2011). This stage is followed by the concrete operational stage which spans seven to eleven years. During this time, the child moves into more logical thinking and can classify objects (Santrock, 2011). The formal operational stage is from eleven years to adulthood. At this stage, abstract reasoning takes place as the adolescent begins to think in more idealist ways (Santrock, 2011).

Vygotsky was another important developmental theorist. His theory and Piaget’s differed in how a child interacted socially, how language was developed, and how culture affected development. Vygotsky was well known for emphasizing the social cultural, and linguistic dimensions of cognitive development (Santrock, 2011). The term “zone of proximal development”, an important educational concept, originated with Vygotsky (Slavin, 2015, p. 41). Bandura was a social learning theorists and his observational learning has four phases: a) attentional, b) retentional, c) reproduction, and d) motivational (Slavin, 2015). Bandura relegated an important part of learning to observation and this theory is played out in the classroom every day; students learn by observation.

Kohlberg’s Moral Development theory has important educational applications. He defined six stages of moral development ranging from very young children to adulthood. Kohlberg believed that humans move through these moral stages as they grow and development (Santrock, 2011). The very young child sees rules as inflexible and absolute, while the adult may see gray areas of rules rather than black and white. Understanding these stages is important in the classroom; how the child in second grade responds to classroom rules may vary greatly from how a high school student responds to rules.

Knowledge of developmental theories gives the teacher foundational tools for guiding students using developmentally appropriate methods to deliver instruction. Knowing what the developmental level is for each age helps the teacher design and teach lessons that utilize skills appropriate for that particular level of development. Moving the students from the known to the unknown involves knowing the zone of proximal development for each student in the classroom and challenging students to push against the proximal development ceiling.

Description of an Effective Teacher and Learning Environment

            Matthew 28:19 reminds Christians to “make disciples of all nations”. This is a reminder that Jesus Christ came to seek and save all mankind, and the Christian educator is compelled to work with all students, not just those who excel academically. Guiding students who are below par academically takes special guidance by a teacher who is willing to adapt to diverse students’ needs and use differentiated instruction to assist the individual student. Colossians 9:19-23 gives an example of the role of a teacher, “To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law …”  These verses beautifully remind the educator that he or she must adapt to the needs of all students, whatever those needs may be.

 

Direct Instruction

            Direct instruction has been found to be more efficient than discovery in conceptual development (Slavin, 2015). Lemov (2010) described the progression of direct instruction as I/we/you. The teacher starts the lesson (I); the student does with the help of the teacher (we); the student does part on his or her own (you); and finally, the student does the complete assignment on his or her own (Slavin, 2015). The parts of direct instruction, according to Slavin (2010) are: a) objective, b) prerequisites, c) new material, d) learning probes, e) independent practice, f) practice and review. By following these logical instructional steps, the teacher leads the student into and through the skill or concept being taught.

Technology

Research on the effect technology is having on children and adolescents today is expanding exponentially and the negative effects of technology have been documented (Aiken, 2016). Since technology has become a way of life, especially for school age children, educators are compelled to use it for good in the classroom. In order to use technology effectively in the classroom, the teacher should understand and practice the standards that the International Society for Technology in Education (ISTE) has developed. These standards guide the teacher in the use of educational technology both ethically and in implementation. Many schools are now distributing iPads or laptop computers to students and most classrooms have at least one desktop computer. Smart phones are being used in the classroom, especially to access interactive programs like Kahoot. Word processors, spreadsheets, presentation software, and data bases are commonly used in the classroom by both teachers and students (Slavin, 2015). As a college professor, this writer cannot imagine teaching without technology. From lesson presentations, to editing student’s submitted assignments, technology is a part of every class.

Motivation

            Motivation is a critical part of learning, but is not easily measured (Slavin, 2015). Von Brummelen (2009) posited that intrinsic motivation is the most effective and long-lasting type of incentive. Intrinsic motivation is self-actualized learning brought about by the desire to learn. According to Brummelen, intrinsic motivation happens when teachers make lessons relevant to what students feel is important. Extrinsic motivation (stickers, grades, positive and negative reinforcements) is effective in the short term, but loses its effectiveness over time (Slavin, 2015).

Classroom Management

The husband-wife team of Wong and Wong are figures that stand out in the field of classroom management. Texas Education Agency recommends Wong and Wong’s (2009) text on teacher effectiveness to teacher candidates; they are cited in important teacher preparation courses and are considered by Texas education leaders as authorities on effective classroom management and discipline (Texas Teachers, 2011). Their work gives sound guidance on starting the year out in a way that can be followed throughout the year by an effective teacher. Effective classroom management and a meaningful discipline policy is important in any classroom. A well-orchestrated and strategized classroom will lead to better outcomes for all learners. Traynor (2002) listed five strategies for classroom management: coercive, laissez-faire, task oriented, authoritative, and intrinsic. After examination of each of these methods, he found that authoritative and intrinsic were the most effective. Authoritative strategy lets the students know who is in charge without being overbearing, and intrinsic motivation builds the desire in the students to reach higher.

Some actionable steps that can be taken to ensure a pleasant learning environment are:

1)    Leave troubles at the door and bring a Christian attitude into the classroom. Children have enough problems and anxieties that they bring with them into the class without the teacher adding his or her own to them. A cheerful, Christian attitude will lighten the day and add joy to the classroom. Smile, smile, smile, especially when it is not easy to do so.

2)    Greet each student, every day.

3)    Start each day with prayer – first personal prayer, then prayer in the classroom if permitted.

4)    Create a classroom that is conducive to learning. Proper lighting, colors that spark interest without being over-stimulating, soft music during seat work, fun activities at the activity table, books that ignite the desire to read at the reading table, all create an atmosphere of safety and comfort, while inspiring and motivating.

5)    Always be fair, impartial, and consistent in discipline and academics.

6)    Practice good time-management with smooth transitions. Have all materials ready and easily at hand so wasted time is avoided.

7)    Close the day with prayer (if permitted), and a positive word for the students to take home.

Learning Characteristics: Ability Groupings and Modalities

Ability groupings can be effective when used correctly. Between-class ability groups, within-class groupings, and mixed-ability grouping have all been used effectively. Within-class groupings have been found to be more effective, especially in core subjects, such as reading and math (Slavin, 2015). Grouping students with same level abilities enable the teacher to engage groups at their proximal developmental level and for them to move from the known to the unknown at their own pace (Slavin, 2015.) Utilizing mixed-ability groups enables peer-to-peer tutoring and is especially effective with students learning English as a second language. Between class-grouping can be effective when special attention is needed in specific areas, whether for students with learning deficiencies or gifted students. Another form of between-class grouping is grouping students with same abilities in a particular subject such as math or language arts. This is usually used in middle or high school classes. A student may be in an advanced language arts class while being in a remedial level math course (Slavin, 2015).

An understanding of the modalities will assist the teacher in engaging students who excel in various ways. Using visual, auditory, tactile, or kinesthetic skills to group students can be beneficial. Knowing and understanding the modality gifting of each students enables the teacher to better meet the needs of each student, utilizing the FFGM.

Personal Reflection

As a life-long learner, it is important to me to understand my communication and learning styles, as well as my modalities. I am a strong technology user and have been for many years. The interpersonal communication score indicated my comfort level with hands on technology and writing. I rarely write by hand; rather I prefer to type since my right arm was injured in an accident some years ago. I am very comfortable with new software and technology in general and am a hands-on learner, rarely taking time to read instructions or even watch a video with instructions. I like group discussions and I learn best by doing. My leadership management skills are all within two percent of one another, with my strongest being consulting. I spend about one-third of my teaching hours consulting with students and I also have a consulting practice. Consulting is an important part of education and I use leadership, persuasion, and negotiating skills to assist my students and clients. Through years of dedication to my professional, spiritual, family, and academic life, I have developed strong study skills. The study skills inventory reflected my life-long learning.

As a Christian educator, I focus on the whole child, using the FFGM recognizing that each child was particularly created by God. Psalm 139:14 states, “I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.” One child may be gifted in math, but struggles in language arts, while another has a learning disability, but is exceptionally talented in music. It is my responsibility to help each child find his or her particular gifting.

Yount, (2010) describes the Discipler’s Model, with the foundation stones of education being the Bible and the needs of the student. The pillars of the model are helping students think, value, and relate. The capstone is helping students grow and the entire model is built within the circle of the Holy Spirit, the Discipler. This model is my philosophy of Christian education. I believe that diversity is the spice in the classroom. Ephesians 4:12-16 describes diversity of ministry so well. Some are apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers. Students in the classroom are diverse and have different learning styles, modalities, and giftings, and it is the responsibility of the teacher to reach the whole child, “But speaking the truth in love, let us grow in every way into Him who is the head – Christ” (Ephesians 4:15).

 

Conclusion

Learning theories are important to educational psychology and methodology. Knowing and understanding various theories assists the teacher in developing strategic class and lesson plans that are developmentally appropriate. Using the Four-Fold-Growth Methodology (FFGM), as modeled in Luke 2:52 and 1 Samuel 2:26, enables the teacher to engage the whole child.

Two quotes remind the educator of the essentiality of teaching the whole child: “You haven’t taught until they have learned” (Wooden, n.d. as cited in Nater & Gallimore, 2006, p. 105), and “Profound responsibilities come with teaching and coaching. You can do so much good – or harm” (Wooden 2004, as cited in in Nater & Gallimore, 2006, p. 121). Christian teachers are the salt and light in the classroom, especially in the public sector. By bringing the Holy Spirit with them into the classroom they make a difference in the lives of their students every day. Using every tool at their disposal, Christian teachers disciple each student ensuring strong physical, mental, social, and spiritual outcomes. Their students learn because they taught and they fulfill their awesome responsibility by bringing about good outcomes in their students.

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The God of the Valley

1 Kings 20:28

“God is a God of the mountain, but he is even more a God of the valley”

Intro: 

  • The Syrians had tried to defeat the people of God and had failed in mountainous regions
  • They had been beaten badly, with many of their men slaughtered
  • Several of the advisors to the king of Syria came to him and suggested that the reason they were being defeated was because the God of the Israelites was a God of the Hills, but not a God of the valleys, so they suggested to fight the Israelites in the valley
  • So, the Syrians regrouped and brought their army to meet the Israelites in a low place, in a valley.
  • The Israelites went out to meet them….the Israelite army looked like two small flocks of goats compared to the Syrian army which filled the entire countryside
  • Then a man of God came to the King of Israel and said….”God says because these Syrians are saying that He is a God of the Hills and not of the valleys, God is going to give you a great victory over them”

OUR GOD

  • Our God is certainly a God of the mountaintop…..a God of victory, overcoming, and mountaintop experiences
  • But, in many ways, our God is even more the God of the valley
  • You need to know that, no matter how deep the valley, your God is there with you

1.  The Enemy Waits for You in the Valley

(the Syrians decided to assemble an army and wait for the Israelites in the ‘plain’…in the valley)

  • We were coming from the mountain-top.  It was a great Subreg Conference.  We were busy making plans for growth and revival throughout Malawi, Moz and Zim
  • But the enemy was waiting in the valley
  • On Saturday we began to drive home from the Conference.  As we were driving back, on a one thousand mile journey from the Conf back to our home, Timothy became sick….complaining of ear-ache and dizziness
  • As we drove across South Africa, Zimbabwe, and Mozambique Timothy became more and more ill…..by the time we arrived home on Monday evening, at the end of the three day journey, he was listless and clearly very sick
  • On Tuesday morning early we found Timothy unresponsive, unable to hear or see us, and thrashing around in his bed.  We rushed him to the hospital.
  • We were now in the valley

2.  The Enemy is Confident in the Valley

(the Bible says that the army of Israel looks liked two little flocks of goats, while the Syrian army filled the countryside)

  • The Enemy is confident in the Valley, because in the valley there are things the enemy can use against you
  • There is fear in the valley
  • There is doubt in the valley
  • There is lack of direction, purpose in the valley
  • There is the feeling of loneliness in the valley
  • Your emotions work against you in the valley
  • There is a seemingly overwhelming number of enemies in the valley
  • On Tuesday morning as I carried Timothy in my arms, with him fighting and thrashing around in his seizure state, all of the attributes of the valley began to attack us.
  • We were afraid----I would later tell my Father that I’ve never been more afraid in my life
  • We knew how serious bacterial meningitis is and we knew the fatality rate (25%+) and the major disability rate (50%+) for this sickness.  Yes, we were afraid.
  • As the day stretched on and we could not get competent medical help, doubt began to creep in.  I asked God why.  I asked God if prayer really works, why can’t I pray and see Timothy wake up??
  • As it became clear that the hospital in Malawi could not properly treat Timo we began to work on getting him medecaved to South Africa.  We encountered so many obstacles, from lazy people in the hospital, to the airport asking for a bribe in order to let the medical flight land……this stretched on until late in the night……we were in the valley

3.  But God is the God of the Valley Also

  • You need to know, you need to remember, that God is still God and He is God of the Valley, just as he is God of the mountain.
  • God does great things in the valley!

"For the LORD your God has blessed you in all the work of your hand. He knows your trudging through this great wilderness. These forty years the LORD your God has been with you; you have lacked nothing."'  Deut 2:7 NKJV

 

A.  God is with you in the Valley  (Deut 2:7“…the Lord your God has been with you”…)

·      The Enemy would try to make you feel that your God is not with you, but in the valley He is there.  Your emotions may be working against, but God is still there beside. 

·      Even though we were afraid, we could tell that God was with us, that He was still guiding the boat, that somehow He would work everything for His Glory

 

 

 

B.  God supplies all your needs in the Valley(Deut 2:7….”you have lacked for nothing”.)

·      God moved on a friend of ours, a Hindu man, to help us when we were in the darkest valley.

·      This man actually closed his business and came to the hospital, paid part of our bill, brought us food, arranged my air flight, helped with the ‘redtape’.

·      I believe God directed this man to help us

·      On Wednesday morning about 9:30 the medical team from South Africa arrived and began to work on Timo…they had said it would take them 20 minutes to prep him for the flight to South Africa, but it took them 2 ½ hours.  We found out later when they arrived they found him critical and those 2 ½ hours were crucial for him to survive.

·      God knew exactly what we needed and knew exactly the right time for them to arrive.

·      For three days, Tuesday to Friday, Timo would be in a coma.  All during those three days, we saw time and time again as God supplied all our needs

·      Example---Joseph found this to be true in his valley……..God supplied all his needs, and equipped him

                                                                         

 

C.  God will give you PEACE in the Valley

·      Timo was medevaced to South Africa onWednesday afternoon

·      He spent that day and the next in a coma.

·      After getting him stabilized and seeing the medicine begin to work, the doctors told us that they would try to wake him on Friday.

·      I awoke on Friday morning very early, waking from a dream of Timo and I riding our four wheelers and having a good time.  The first thought I had when I awoke was ‘everything is going to be alright’

·      We did not know what we would find when they tried to wake him up that morning, but we knew somehow it was going to be alright.  God was giving us peace in our valley

·      Example----Paul and Silas in jail, Acts 16

 

D.  God will give you Victory in the Valley----

·      We went to the hospital Friday morning, not knowing what to expect.

·      The doctors reduced his sedative and almost immediately Timo began to awaken. 

·      We had been warned not to expect too much, that he might not recognize us, that he might have lost all his memory, or his motor functions, etc etc

·      But when he opened his eyes, he immediately looked at us with recognition and began to respond to the questions of the doctors

·      Although he was still very weak and would only stay awake for a few minutes at a time, we could tell he was going to be okay….I asked him if knew where he was…he replied ‘Mars’…I asked why he would say that…he said ‘because I don’t know’….by that we knew he still had his humor and wit

·      Even though we knew there would still be a long road ahead for Timothy, there at that moment, in the middle of the valley, God gave us Victory.

·      Example----Ezekiel in the Valley of dry bones, Ezek. 33

 

Conclusion:

 

·      It is much easier looking back, to see the hand of God in the Valley. 

·      If you are in the middle of the Valley today, it may be difficult for you to see and feel the things you would like

·      But I want you to know that your God is the God of the Valley

·      He is with you

·      He is supplying, and will supply, your every need

·      He will give you Peace in the midst of your Storm

·      He will give you Victory in the Valley

 

Just as He promised to the Israelites in the O.T., God will give you Victory in your Valley.

 

·      Don’t sit down in your valley….keep walking and you will make it to the other side

·      Give your Valley to God     (Exp----Ezekiel “Lord thou knowest”) (“our eyes are on You”)

·      On Thursday morning, while Timo was still in his coma and while we still didn’t know what might happen, we found the chapel in the hospital and had a prayer meeting

·      In that prayer meeting, I gave this Valley to God……..I told God that His ways were higher, that though I didn’t understand I knew that somehow He would work this for His glory.

·      That is what you need to do today……give your Valley to God, , give your situation to God, let Him take your hand and lead you to the other side.

Yes, There is Life After Forty

Author: Carolyn P. Simoneaux, Ed.D.
"For the LORD your God has blessed you in all the work of your hand. He knows your trudging through this great wilderness. These forty years the LORD your God has been with you; you have lacked nothing."'  Deuteronomy 2:7 NKJV
“He's been preparing me, for forty years, to be right where I am. And I believe He's been preparing me for the fulfillment of promises. His Promises.”  Laurel Christensen

Forty is a pivotal time is a woman’s life.  My generation, at forty, was facing an empty nest and few job opportunities due to lack of experience or education.  Women turning forty today may still have small children at home.  Regardless, this is a time that a woman looks at herself, her life, and questions where she is and where she is going.  Some women have put off education and/or a career of her own because of her husband’s education or career, or having small children at home made it impractical to work or go to school.  Others have had to work and goals they sat in their 20’s just never happened.  Still others are in the midst of their education or career.

We each have diverse statuses – married, single, divorced, widowed.  Some of us have grown children and grandchildren.  Others have small children or teenagers still at home.  But, we have all looked in the mirror and noticed our changing bodies.  All of us have looked at our lives and asked the question – where to from here?

Is there life after forty?  Yes, emphatically yes, there is life after forty; in fact the best years of your life lie ahead.  At this time in your life, whether you or forty or 70 – your best years lie ahead.  You ask, “How can that be”.  Every year we live for God we draw closer to His promise for our lives.  Now is the time to redefine, then refine our commitment to God.

Priority 1:  Redefining and refining our commitment to God.

 Shall we examine the meaning of the words redefine  and refine?   According to Google redefine means to reexamine or reevaluate, especially with a view to change.  Refine is defined by Dictionary.com as: to bring to a fine or a pure state; free from impurities.

As mature women in the Church we must redefine ourselves – examine ourselves closely and make sure that we are what we say we are - women of God.  After this close examination, the refinement comes; making sure we are in a fine or a pure state; free from impurities.  Redefining, refining ourselves is not an easy task and isn’t accomplished in a weekend at a women’s conference.  It takes time and commitment.  It takes prayer and study of the Word. 

Priority 2:  Redefining and refining our commitment to our family – the Church

 Nehemiah is my favorite book of the Bible.  I love the Psalms and Proverbs and they have lifted me up many times in my life.  I love to read of the life of Jesus in the Gospels.  The Book of Acts is exciting and always rekindles that new birth fire, and the Epistles give direction.  But, Nehemiah reminds me of my commitment to God and to this Truth I have been blessed with. 

When Nehemiah returned to Jerusalem and saw the condition of the wall he told the leaders, “Come and let us build the wall of Jerusalem, that we may no longer be a reproach” (Nehemiah 2:17).  Nehemiah was calling the people to redefine their position as God’s people.  One hundred fifty years earlier, Jerusalem was destroyed by Babylon; the Temple and its wall torn down.  After Babylon was conquered by the Medes and Persians, some of the exiled Judeans were allowed to return to Jerusalem and the Temple was rebuilt. The wall around the city, however, still lay in ruins. Nehemiah called the people a reproach and challenged them to redefine themselves, to once again behave as the chosen people of God.  Challenged and inspired by Nehemiah, the people answered, “Let us rise up and build” (Nehemiah 2:17). 

As mature women of God, we have a scriptural obligation to our families and to the Church to build the wall of the Kingdom of God.  We are the mothers of our families and of the mothers of the Church.  In Nehemiah chapter four, Sanballat, the governor of Samaria, tried to cause trouble to those building the wall, laughing and mocking them.  The sixth verse of that chapter states simply, “So we built the wall”.  In Nehemiah six, the builders were threatened with the sword, but they refused to quit.  They declared, “I am doing a great work and I can’t come down” (Nehemiah 6:3). 

So what that our tummies aren’t as flat as they used to be!  So what that our hair is not the same color it used to be!  So what that we can’t wear what we used to be able to wear!  We have a great work to do and we can’t stop now.  So, we must “just build the wall” (Bernard, 2015)!  When opposition comes – we must build the wall.  When we become discouraged – we must build the wall.  When it gets hard – we must build the wall.  We can’t turn back, we have to keep going!!! 

Now is the time to redefine, then, refine our commitment to God and His work!  When Nehemiah returned to Jerusalem later to check on the wall building work he heard the children speaking the language of Ashdod and some could not even speak their native Judean language.  Nehemiah 13:24 says that he became so angry that he cursed the people, he struck some of them, and even pulled out their hair.  Why? --- Because the people had forgotten the most important thing of all – their commitment to their God.  Part of this commitment is their responsibility to teach their children.  The Judean children were growing up without being taught the Truths of One God.  It is our responsibility to keep our commitment to God by teaching our children and our children’s children the Truth, so when Jesus returns He will find them speaking the language of Truth – the Truth of One God, Infilling of the Holy Ghost, Baptism in Jesus Name, Righteous and holy living.  It is up to us.  The preacher can preach – but we must teach also. 

As the Wall Builders, we will face ridicule (Nehemiah 2:9, 4: 1-3), wrath (4:1, 6-9), discouragement (4:10), fear (4:11-23, internal strife (5:1-5; laziness (4:10), satanic subtlety & compromise (6:18), and lying prophets, (6:10-14).  But, we must “just build the wall” (Bernard, 2015)! 

Priority 3:  Redefining and refining our commitment to ourselves.

            We’ve looked at the priorities of our commitment to God and to His Church and our families, but, there comes a time in the life of every woman that we must look at ourselves and our lives and redefine, then refine, our commitment to ourselves.  Life goals that have been put on hold need to be taken out of the moth balls, redefined, then refined to a finished work.  Perhaps the goals that we had in our youth are no longer applicable – they need to be redefined.  Once redefined, then we need to refine them until they are in fine or pure state; free from impurities.  I’d like to share with you some women who have redefined their goals and priorities after the age of forty and refined those goals into major life accomplishments.

·      Ann Ahrens – completed her Ph.D process after the age of 40.

·      Evelyn Drury – Board Member of Urshan; struggles daily with the challenges of M.S. but has completed her Ph.D over the age of 50.

·      Nona Freeman – completed her first book after the age of 60.

·      Ruth Harvey – rebuilt a shattered life, remarried and moved to New England to, with her husband, establish a church after the age of 40.

·      Cindy Miller – Associate Professor at Urshan Graduate School of Theology, co-pastor, and conference speaker, completed her Ph.D after the age of 50.

·      Stacey Perry – Moved to New Haven Connecticut to co-found, with her husband,  a church after the age of 40.

·      Jennie Russell – became Executive Vice President of Urshan after the age of 50.

·      Lakelie Simoneaux – started a new life as a single mother and college student after the age of 40.

·      Vicki Simoneaux moved back to the US (a huge cultural and life change aftter serving as a missionary for 20 years) to pastor alongside her husband after the age of 40.

It has been thirty-one years since I turned forty.  Those thirty-one years were exponentially more productive than my first forty years.  I can compare the difference between these life periods to riding a tricycle and riding my son-in-laws Harley!  I could list some major accomplishments during those thirty-one years, but, I haven’t accomplished everything God has for me yet.  My husband, Tim, spoke a prophetic word to me the year he turned sixty.  He said that our later years would be more productive for God than our former years.  Looking at age 60, I was just a bit skeptical.  I questioned what we could do in our winter years. Working at Urshan College and Urshan Graduate School has fulfilled that prophetic word.  He and I are in a position to touch more lives in our winter years than we did in our former 35 years of ministry.  The lives we are so blessed to be able to influence will reach exponentially more than we ever could, exceedingly, abundantly, above, all we could even imagine!

What are the goals you have put on hold?  What are the dreams that you have thought would never happen?  Your latter years are going to be greater than your former years!  Let’s just build the wall!   

“He's been preparing me, for forty years, to be right where I am.
And I believe He's been preparing me for the fulfillment of promises.
His Promises.”  Laurel Christensen